Text Box: Text Box: it!!!  Now my forgiveness is being challenged.  Oh Lord give me strength.  Smile, that’s right, you can make more, it is Thanksgiving after all.  My wife and I see them off, hug and wave goodbye and as they drive away, I notice his van is leaking oil… all down our driveway.  

I should be used to all this by now, we all should, and really I guess I am.  Maybe it’s all about families reinforcing what unconditional love is.  They remind us of tolerance and keep us from getting too full of ourselves, and that’s a good thing.  No matter how much money you Text Box: have, how powerful you are in your community or the world, your mother, brother, sister, cousin, aunt, or uncle will say or do something that only they know about you and it will make you humble and you will realize you are just another nut in the can.  After all is said and done and Thanksgiving passes, we are already making plans for the Christmas holidays, and so it goes.  Peace, joy and happiness to each and every one of you!
Text Box: Text Box: Happy or unhappy, families are all mysterious.

Gloria Steinem, “Ruth’s Song,” 
Outrageous Acts and Everyday Rebellions (1983)
Text Box: The Holidays (cont. from page 3)
Text Box: An Article by Phil Roberts
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The Maiden Rock Press

 

When an old man died in the geriatric ward of a nursing home in North Platte, Nebraska , it was believed that he had nothing left of any value.

Later, when the nurses were going through his meager possessions, they found this poem. Its quality and content so impressed the staff that copies were made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital. One nurse took her copy to Missouri .


The old man's sole bequest to posterity has since appeared in the Christmas edition of the News Magazine of the St. Louis Association for Mental Health. A slide presentation has also been made based on his simple, but eloquent, poem.

And this little old man, with nothing left to give to the world, is now the author of this 'anonymous' poem winging across the Internet.


Crabby Old Man
What do you see nurses? . . . . . What do you see?
What are you thinking . . . . . when you're looking at me?
A crabby old man . . . . . not very wise,
Uncertain of habit . . . . . with faraway eyes?

Who dribbles his food . . . . . and makes no reply.
When you say in a loud voice . . . . . 'I do wish you'd try!'
Who seems not to notice . . . . . the things that you do.
And forever is losing . . . . . A sock or shoe?

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